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G Spot and Standing Position
Here we will look at how to find it and give your partner immense pleasure once you do!
Where is the G Spot?
The G-Spot is the area to target for maximum sexual arousal.
You will be able to help give added pleasure and a mind blowing climax to your partner if you can locate and stimulate it.
The G-Spot is essentially a bean shaped area of nerve tissue, located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of a women’s cervix.
The size and location of the G-Spot will vary between women, but it usually lies about 1.5” to 3” inside the vagina.
• Standing 1 – Although rear entry is often a good method for helping your partner orgasm, not all women are comfortable being in the “doggy-style” position. A variation of that position can be done while standing, which is particularly useful for unusual locations, such as public bathrooms, or right after coming home from an evening out. You stand behind your partner while she is bent over slightly, then penetrate from the rear. The best thing about this position is that you can lovingly reach around her and stroke her clitoris while you're penetrating her from behind.
• Standing 2 – Both partners don't have to be standing for deep penetration to occur. If you want to try something a little more interesting, then this technique may be a good one. You'll need a sturdy bar stool (which can be inexpensively purchased almost anywhere if you don't already have one). Have your partner slide onto the stool while you stand completely naked in front of her. If you're still working on foreplay, this is a good way to add in some heavy kissing and stroking. While you maintain those positions, you'll slide your penis inside her. Not only does this provide enjoyable penetration for both of you, but you'll be able to continue the foreplay more easily than with most methods because you'll still be facing one another and you'll be very close together.
• Standing Position 3 – Some couples are surprised at how many ways they can have sex in a standing position. The great thing about these positions is not only that they can help your partner achieve a strong orgasm, but they also can seem more naughty and dangerous to your partner. We'll talk more about this a little later in the chapter. With this particular variation, you'll stand behind your partner while she is bending over, almost as if she's trying to touch her toes. While she's bent over, you'll be in the perfect position for penetration and for stimulating her Gspot. What's even better is that this position can be used almost anywhere.
• Standing Position 4 – Here is another interesting idea with this type of position, particularly if your partner has a police officer fantasy. In this position, your partner faces a wall and spreads herself out as if she was about to be searched by a police officer. You come behind her for penetration. While your in the middle of the fun, you can always pretend to be the arresting officer who finds a new way to punish (or pleasure) law breakers.
• Other Positions 1 – Not all positions are easily classifiable. This one, for example, is a combination of the side by side and missionary positions, but it offers you a chance to achieve deep penetration while also making it easier for you to gently massage your partner's clitoris. To achieve these benefits, she needs to be lying on her side while you're in a kneeling position. Raise her upper leg over your shoulder so you'll be able to slide inside of her. Many of the women I've worked with have found this position to be one of their favorites for achieving orgasm, so I highly recommend trying it with your partner.
• Other Positions 2 – Another interesting position the two of you may want to try involves one partner standing and the other stretched out on the bed. In this case, your partner lies face down on the bed, then scoots her body down until everything below her waist is hanging off the end of the bed. This is where you come in. You stand at the end of the bed, as close to the mattress as possible, and hold her legs in your arms. If necessary, you can lift her up a little so her vagina is more lined up with your pelvis. As you continue to hold her legs, you can begin thrusting inside her. The reason this position has high orgasmic potential for your partner is that the angle of her pelvis means your penis is going to be stimulating her G-spot and that usually leads to very good things.
• Using Toys 1 – Some men have a hard time allowing sex toys in the bedroom. They sometimes feel insecure and worry that if their partner is more satisfied by a plastic toy than their own flesh and blood penis then they may not be as necessary in her life. The truth is, however, that sex toys can be an incredible addition to any couple's sex lives and can tremendously increase a woman's ability to reach orgasm. Clitoral suckers are one example. These toys do exactly what their name says: they suck against the clitoris. You can use these on your partner while you are penetrating her from any position or in any location. They will provide her with intense stimulation which will only be enhanced further by your penetration.
• Using Toys 2 – If you don't like the idea of using toys on your partner, why not use them on yourself? Vibrating cock rings are one possibility. These toys fit around the shaft of your penis and, of course, vibrate. During vaginal penetration, the cock ring will give your partner the same type of experience she would have using a vibrator, plus the vibration will boost your pleasure as well.
