Why Russian Women Want American Men

Why are single Russian ladies looking for husbands abroad? If you don't know why beautiful Russian and Ukrainian women search for American men, find out these reasons right now...

Here's one of the questions my clients always ask me: “Why are the finest Russian women so much interested in corresponding with American men? I am a 31 year old American man and tried the personals in the US. I had little luck with local dating and regional dating sites. However, when I started using the Russian personals, the response was overwhelming. Why?"

Here are the top 6 reasons why pretty Russian ladies start searching for foreign husbands.

1. Census, Russia is home to 10 million more women than men. The number of ladies in their 30s noticeably exceeds the number of men. After the divorce, the woman with a kid (or with no kids) has little chance of getting married again in Russia, according to sociologists. There are very little men in Russia to get married to: mortality rate of the working age males is extremely high.

2. Women are overloaded with family responsibilities in Russia: housekeeping, upbringing of children and earning of money. They have to take charge of all everyday problems that are essential for their families. For the sake of truth it should be said, there ARE nice, responsible and sober men in Russia but we don't easily meet them. The unvarnished truth is: most Russian men abuse alcohol and do not provide for their families. Psychologists say, Russian men undervalue the essence of family.

3. Pretty Russian women are highly educated and want careers. Depending on where she lives in the FSU, she may find that it is impossible for her to have the career she wants and to realize her full potential there. Most educated women have more ambition than to simply function from 9 to 17 for a tiny salary. There's nothing wrong with that, as long as she seeks a loving relationship with the man and his moral support.

4. Some Russian women are looking to live in an economically more stable environment (and I don't just mean the ones who are obviously looking for a 'sugar daddy', although there are some of those as well as you already know).
In other words, it’s reasonable to say some want to live in a better economy but we can not assume that is what every Russian woman looking abroad desires.
There's nothing wrong with that as well, as long as the woman's feelings toward the man are sincere.

5. A female has an instinct to choose a mate of good genes to support the family, and defend the children of that union. If Russian women see American men for that basic instinct, than they have made a wise choice, not just about money, but thinking about the future.

6. Sometimes people are just lonely. They either have different standards or just haven't met the right person and have expanded their selection. There is nothing wrong with that. There is something even satisfying about looking abroad. It can be a win-win situation.

"Marriages between Russian women and American men are very successful and harmonious", O. Makhovskaya, the senior research assistant at the Psychology Institute in Russia's Academy of Sciences says. "Families of this kind where husbands are Americans and women are Russians prove to be long-living, as the roles in the family are clearly distributed and the mechanism operates good, although these are mixed families. In such families each of the couple is ready to make concessions and on the whole, wonderfully performs the role."